CYHMH E3 & E4

I lost track of how many times I cried thru this episode. In the six months or so I have been translating for this blog, this was by far the hardest episode to do cuz of all the tears. There is a simplicity and earnestness to this drama that evokes feelings you know you will have – but you still cant guess to what extent till it unfolds before your eyes. I warned ppl that tears are to be expected tonight – but I was shocked by how many times and the drama isn’t done. Next week it seems like there will be more. Not used to translating a drama this sad – I tend to stick with the light hearted romcom. After tonight- now I know why. This episode resonates for a while even after you shut the TV off.  Since this drama gets 10% ratings, I bet every single one of those viewers bawled like crazy tonight.
I never saw these two child actors before – heard the girl was in a movie with won bin, but I never saw it. These kids are like running away with every scene they are in – even against the pros like the veteran actress portraying the grandma, the little girl is standing her ground and leaving an indelible impression about her character. I can’t imagine how big a shoe that hickkick girl has to fill when she portrays the adult version of B. Just watch that preview for tm and I dare anyone not to feel B’s pain and anguish-her acting is so good it is almost palpable. I have to hand it to this show – first time I ever cried during a preview and it is only into the 3rd episode- seriously – the preview had me bawling like a baby (twice) I’m gonna need like a box of tissue for E4.
 
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character names – hope i can keep them straight:
D- dong joo
rich kid who later goes deaf
Y- bong young gyu
M’s dad who seems normal enough but his maturity is like at a child’s level-wants to marry MS
B- bong woo ri
known as little mi suk – main little girl (sorry for the confusion – did not realize B was her last name initial till E2)
M- Ma Ru 
the kid who hates his own father -who later gets his name changed to Jun Ha
Choi –
Dong joo’s stepfather
G- hwang geum soon- grandma
shin ae’s mom who adopts Y and treats him like her own son
T- Tae –
dong joo’s mom (actress who played gu jun pyo’s mom)
MS- Mi Suk
little girl’s mom who is deaf but can sign. On soompi, they forgot to mention she is also sort of mute cuz she can barely speak.
S- Kim Shin Ae
M’s real mom who is friends with T and had an affair with choi
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DYHMH E3
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highlights from last wk with M’s voiceover saying he doesnt want MS as his stepmom and S looking for her son, grandpa collapsing, grandpa’s voiceover saying to M- dont forget that you are the real owner (of the company)
grandma tells Y to take the blanket and sleep with MS cuz that is what married ppl do cuz Y was about to sleep in his room with M. grandma asks the neighbor to go teach Y what to do on the first night-he points out Y already had M so Y should know but she claims Y might have forgotten. he insists Y would not forget something like that. she hits him and tells him to listen to her
the neighbor sits outside with Y and tries to have the bird and the bees talk with Y – neighbor asks if Y remembers what he did when he had M
Y says he remembers and recalls how M kept crying so Y was so startled while making seaweed soup that Y ran off
the neighbor hits him and says that wasnt what he meant for Y to remember
he tries again and asks if Y knows how M could have been born
Y gets up saying he will go ask the grandma
neighbor tells Y to do as he instructs
women hate rushing so first take your time-make the time last longer
next- before you do anything ask MS -if she doesnt like it then dont do it
last of all- if she says she likes it then Y should do his best -with all his energy- even if his nose bleeds
Y remarks that marriage is too hard
neighbor says just get thru tonight well-cuz women never forget their first night till they die
dont forget
take your time
ask
and till your nose bleeds
Y repeats what the neighbor said
after their lesson as they walk along, B asks D if it really is ok for her to have his toy piano.he says “I – this oppa” doesnt use it it at all so it is ok. she bows and says -thank you- she is going to go home and brag.
B: make sure and come back next sunday “teacher”
and she waves goodbye
he comments she still wont call him “oppa”. he turns to leave but calls out “hey”
she doesnt stop so he tosses her hacky sack at her back
she turns around and he runs up to her asking for her name
cuz he doesnt want to call her “hey or you” and asks for her name and tells her his name 
she says she knows his name but she doesnt have a name yet
D:what? you dont have a name?
she says when she gets one later she will tell him first.
she points out he said he was late so he looks at his watch and says he is in big trouble and runs off
she signs again and says while smiling “he is like a fool/dummy”
(turns out touching the nose like that doesnt mean “i like you” it means “fool”)
she yells after him to be sure to come next sunday
on the bus ride back to seoul, D mimics what she signed and tries to guess what her sign meant – that he is good looking? that his nose is high?  that he is cool? and smiles looking out the window
B tries to practice piano and startles the grandma so the grandma tells her it is noisy and hurry up and sleep. B asks the grandma why they have to sleep so early and grandma says it is normal to sleep early on the wedding day (indirect way of saying it is her parents first night) 
B asks why and the grandma tells her to stop making her talk and hurry and close her eyes. B gets a tummy ache and squirms from under the blanket so the grandma yells at her to stop squirming cuz cold air is coming in. B says she has to go to the bathroom and asks the grandma to go with her cuz she is scared but the grandma doesnt want to escort her to the bathroom while B does #2. M comes out of the bathroom so B holds onto his hand and asks M to stay there for a bit. he asks why he should and she explains it is cuz she is scared and he sees she is in a hurry so he tells her to hurry in and stands guard.
Y and MS are in the room together. he is sitting facing away from her. she taps him on the shoulder but Y remembers what the neighbor guy said about taking your time. she makes the sign to go to sleep and Y remembers he is suppose to ask what she wants first and so Y asks her if they should play roles – he can be the customer and she can be the owner. she looks confused. then he remembers he isnt suppose to do anything she doesnt want to do
so he tries something else
while she is doing her business- B asks if M is still out there and he doesnt answer so she opens the door calling out “oppa -brother” and with his back to her he tells her he told her not to call him that. she says she wont – just dont leave. he tells her to just close the door (and he shuts it) remarking she doesnt even know that she should feel embarrassed
M looks over as he hears Y singing – B peeks out too.
Y is singing in the room and MS smiles. Y thinks he succeeded as he remembers the neighbor saying if she likes it -do your best – with all your energy and  do it till your nose bleeds. Y worries that he will get a nosebleed. B runs in and says they are playing without her and joins Y singing. M watches from the door and the grandma goes in and hits Y calling him crazy and to go to sleep.
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choi gets briefed about the cosmetic company – some other competitor thinks that grandpa’s company is going to go against them with a new brand and choi remarks what kind of business are they going to do if they lack confidence. he tells the lawyers to quietly take care of his wife and D’s stocks/shares. one of the men gets a call about the grandpa’s activity.
T goes to see her dad and he isnt in his hospital bed. the grandpa left the hospital and goes to his home to get to his safe and writes out something by hand. (i think he is switching ownership or changing his will)
* the dates on the document says 1995
choi goes home and D arrived so D ducks and hides cuz he isnt supposed to be outside – esp this late at night
choi goes in and sees the grandpa just as the grandpa is done writing. he asks how choi knew the grandpa was here. choi snatched the documents out of his hand and the grandpa asks for it back. choi rips up what he wrote and tells grandpa to stop doing this stuff now.
S is at home and gets a call from T and tells her nothing much happened but-S hears something break 
choi asks if the grandpa still thinks choi will be scared of a piece of paper. grandpa tries to say how dare you but cant get the words out. choi says if he was going to trust choi he should have kept trusting choi till the end and not do stuff like this. grandpa says – just cuz you do this do you think you can have (company name). even if you kill me now – it wont become yours.
he threatens the lawyer will be here soon so choi should get out.choi laughs and asks – you still think there is someone on your side? choi shows the last document the grandpa entrusted the lawyer. as soon as he became the president, the lawyer handed it over to choi. the grandpa is shocked and tries to get it from choi -they struggle and the old man goes down. choi rips that up too saying if he tears it up -the company is his.
choi grabs him and yells it would have been better if the grandpa hadnt written this
grandpa says choi is the same -choi accuses him of trying to run choi off
he makes the grandpa fall back in pain
S listens from outside but doesnt make a move to go in and help
choi yells down at the grandpa- did you think i would keep letting this happen to me
grandpa says choi shouldnt have started this
but choi says since he started it he has to finish it
grandpa crawls toward the oxygen tank but choi pulls the tube off
choi looks down at the grandpa and says: compared to how many years I had to live patiently enduring – it will be short and comfortable
choi throws the hose and both men see that D had been watching from outside the window
D looks down at his grandpa all sad
choi looks at D in shock and calls out his name
grandpa suddenly grabs choi’s legs (out of fear that choi will harm D)
grandpa says – you cant and holds on for dear life
choi says – let go
D yells out – grandpa
D cries as he watches choi kick off the grandpa’s hold
(D was on a ladder trying to climb up to his room to sneak back in) 
choi goes out and orders D to come here but D shakes his head no
choi says hurry and come cuz D could get hurt
in slow motion
D leans out and loses his footing and slips
choi tries to reach for D  but cant reach out to grab D’s hand in time
D falls off the ladder and hits his head on a huge rock that was on the ground
choi runs out and S stands there and asks choi if he has been living like this-and yells after him that T couldnt even have his child
he tells her to move and goes to D
S looks in the room and sees grandpa’s still body
maid reaches D first then the guard I think
so choi is like 3rd to reach D
choi does look visibly upset
he cradles D’s head and slaps his face trying to revive him telling D to wake up
and then he shakes D to get him to regain consciousness
choi calls for an ambulance
S comes out and sees what happened to D
*the man is an idiot cuz you dont shake the poor kid or even touch him cuz his spine could have been broken-bet he did more damage
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T was looking for her dad at the hospital
her driver says the other secretary isnt picking up
she says let’s go home
she tries to call S but S doesnt answer
but the doctor comes up and asks if she heard already (about D)
she asks if he found her dad – did something happen to him
doctor looks like he is at a loss for words cuz he has to give her the bad news
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D is rushed in and there is liquid coming out of his ears and blood all over his head
he is wearing a neck brace
when she sees D, T screams and wants to know what happened to her son
choi says D fell from the ladder
T yells at S – what were you doing? you said nothing much happened? she accused S of not doing a good job taking care of D cuz that happened to him
D has surgery
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B is playing the toy piano on the tree and practicing
D is still in surgery
at the grandpa’s funeral
choi lies to ppl that the grandpa saw D fall and fell into shock and died
choi asks the men to take care of the company till the wake and funeral are over
T is crying over her dad
she asks -how could this happen- when D ended up like that – and top of that her dad has to die
she keeps calling out and crying for her dad
choi says she needs to stay focused for D’s sake
she is in denial and says D is only a little hurt and he is okay
D’s uncle comes in and cries and shakes T saying how could you let D get hurt
that smart kid -now what do we do? what’s going to happen to D?
choi says for the uncle not to do this cuz T is going thru a hard time
uncle knocks choi down
he yells how dare choi talk like that
if choi was going to raise someone else’s kid – choi should have taken care of D’s body too
how dare choi talk like that after putting D in that condition
one of the men stands up for choi asking the uncle how could he treat choi like that
the uncle accuses the man of going over to choi’s side
uncle says choi is not their family- he doesnt have the same bloodline
if something goes wrong with D
if the company goes over to choi – is that man going to take responsibilty for that
choi grabs the uncle and warns not to talk out of turn
how dare he say something bad will happen to D
choi claims that D is his son
what is a bloodline?
a young kid is fighting to survive and (the uncle is out of line) – is that what a bloodline does?
if the uncle has energy to do that – it is better if he prays instead
ppl drag the uncle out cuz he is upsetting the family
choi overacts and weeps a lot so T comforts him
S watches and cant believe how good he is acting at feeling sad
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grandma wakes up and B is sleeping without a blanket so she covers B
she checks on M sleeping
MS has woken and is washing rice
Y takes her wild flowers and ends up falling down just as he was about to sneak up behind her
he asks how she knew he came up behind her
she signed something – that she smelled the flowers
he asks if she likes flowers
she smiles and bows
so he bows and thanks her for smiling
he offers to make food
he understand what she says and his happy – cuz she told him to make the rice well
she takes his hand so he giggles and wonders why she keeps holding his hand
she wanted to tell him to make sure the water level was up to his hand to make the rice taste good
grandma watches them and smiles calling Y a crazy guy
she says he looks happy
choi tells some guy to get the paperwork done
the guy wants to wait till D wakes up and do it slowly but choi makes him go ahead and do it
cuz of the way the uncle behaved
S listened in and asks if choi can trust that man
she points out the man betrayed the grandpa so what if the guy betrays choi-what will he do?
he says it isnt her business
S;then dont make me worry
she holds up a ripped part of what the grandpa wrote
saying she found it under the grandpa’s bed
choi tells her not to threaten him with stuff like that
she says -why would she do that? she is on his side
he asks what she wants
she wants him to come back to her after he gets everything he wants from T
T looks at her dad’s pic at the wake
explaining she has to go see D and apologizes for having to leave her dad here alone
all she can think about is D
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before she goes in D’s room
T hears S’s voice (in the stairwell )
S asks choi – what is there that i cant do better than T?
T walks over to them
(choi and S are having a conversation in the stairwell)
S points out the company is now his like he wished
he tells her to shut up
she is mistaken – it doesnt have anything to do with the company
even in the past and now a woman like her means nothing to him
the reason why he met her for a short time
she knows very well it was cuz of her connection to the company
quietly go back to america
not saying this cuz i am scared
saying it cuz you living like this still is pathetic
and i can send you enough money to live off of
choi starts to go up the stairs but she says
S: if you are going to send me away – get two tickets
cuz your son needs to eat and live too
he turns around :what?
S: cant you understand?
to me who doesnt mean anything to you
choi – i had your son
T overhears all that
S says since choi is smart
doesnt he remember
flashback to a pregnant S
she is looking at her sonagram pic
when the news says that T’s husband died with his dad in a helicopter accident
at the wake for T’s husband and her father in law
choi is there looking concerned over T
S goes and looks from the doorway
when they are alone together
S asks choi: you arent planning to start over with T are you?
choi: is there a reason why i cant?
S asks did he forget how they (the president and his son) treated him
choi says he forgot
you need to live like me – choose wisely when to leave or cling
that is how you can get what you want
S says he cant cuz everyone in the country knows that T is pregnant with her dead husband’s baby
she asks if choi is crazy enough to raise someone else’s son like his own for money
and he says it is his life and mind her own business
S:what about my life?
she tells him she is pregnant with his son
he laughs and asks if that was all she had to hold onto him
he compares her to T (and what she can offer-what is “ooh -kyung” and points out S doesnt have much to offer
he says they both grew up without good parents and ended up like this
he says if she can still have it – she should get an abortion
there is nothing good about having a kid who is like choi
and walks out
she calls him a “poor (B) word for guys like him”
end flashback
choi asks if she had that child
does she expects him to believe that
she asks if she should give him a lock of M”s hair for proof if choi cant believe it
or should i drag him over and show him to you –  telling him that his father wanted to kill him before he was even born cuz his father didnt want him
with this – do i still not have the right to know what you are up to?
she tells him to raise D for the rest of choi’s life and starts to walk off
choi stops her
he asks where that child is
she says she will show M to him in due time
choi warns if even a word of what she said was a lie- he will kill her with his own hands
she says those threats dont work on her
if he wants to see his son
dont act out of line with her from now on
she shakes off his grasp and goes up
T leans against the railing in shock
she remembers choi saying D is all he needs
and how S said she broke up with her child’s dad cuz he said he couldnt raise the kid
then choi telling the uncle that D is his son
then S telling choi that she had his son
T is holding her hand from trying to process all of it
doctor gives T bad news about D’s condition
D’s surgery went well but the damage is worse than they thought
T almost faints
she says it is all lies
choi comes up and supports her
she pushes him away – saying -it’s not (happening)
this cant be happening- tell me it is all a lie
he asks why she is like this again
doctor explains he told her about how the surgery went and she is in shock
she says she is going to D – she yells at him to let go of her
she is going to D
she keeps yelling for her son
D is lying on a bed and he looks awful
i am getting chills – poor thing
T is crying over him asking him to wake up cuz she is so scared
she tries to hug him and cries
crap – i am crying
choi watches T
and remembers S saying she had his son
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MS gives the grandma a perm and colors her hair black
grandma wants to see the mirror but Y hides it from her saying – everything is a mess
instead of a mom – she became an ahjumma ( younger looking woman than a grandma)
B echoes him and says instead of looking like a grandma – she looks like an ahjumma
B says she looks pretty
grandma likes it cuz she thinks maybe she should have gotten the sides curlier
M comes out in uniform and tries to sneak away to school
MS sees him and goes over to give him his lunch
Y sniffs it and says it smells like sausage
B says she likes sausage too and asks him to leave her just one
grandma says to B that M is going to study (so let him eat it all)
she tells M that his new mom made the lunch so he needs to eat all of it and not have any leftovers
MS tries to give M lunch but he says he doesnt need stuff like this and takes his hand away
and walks off
B runs after him with the lunch and begs him to take it cuz her mom made it since early this morning
she holds out his ear plugs and says she knows he doesnt listen to music
he tells her not to bother him
she runs after him – you dont like me that much? doesnt matter cuz i like you
she brags that even tho her mom cant talk her mom is a good cook so it will taste really good
so he needs to make sure to eat this
if it is heavy I will carry it for you every day oppa
he says why am i your oppa
B retorts sarcastically:then are you my dad?
he stops and turns so she blocks her head cuz she fears he will hit her
he tells her not to do that from now on
who is going to hit her? so why does she react that way
she promises not to do it anymore
he comments she is ugly
she follows after him – is that why you dont want to be my brother?
then later when I become pretty – then will you be my brother?
M:even then i wont
she whines – oppa then what do i have to do for you to be my brother
she keeps calling him oppa so he runs off and she chases yelling at him to take his lunch
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grandma is looking at her new perm in a mirror and admiring how she looks
neighbor comes up behind her and pretends to mistake her for his wife then acts shock to see that she is M’s grandma when she turns to face him
he asks why she looks so much younger
grandma grins
she says where are your eyes- your wife is over there
the wife grins watching them kid around
MS brought the grandma lunch with lots of side dishes
the neighbor’s wife asks if MS got fired from the barbershop
the grandma says the shop owner begged MS to come to work but the grandma wanted MS to do housework and only work at the factory for the time being
neighbor’s wife says it is a waste of MS’s talents (guess she was good at doing hair)
her husband counts all the side dishes
the grandma is happy and said MS made so much that there is no room to eat rice
grandma calls Y over to eat
Y runs over with B
grandma tells Y to eat first but Y feeds her first and then his wife and then -he calls B “little MS” but changes it to “my daughter” and feeds B
grandma seems happy watching how loving B and Y are together
neighbor’s wife makes a remark that she cant watch (cuz they are too much) and says – could Y love B that much when B isnt even Y’s own child
grandma notices that remark
and her husband too and he tells the grandma not to pay attention to his wife and makes a comment about the grandma’s hair and says even if Y doesnt have a child of his own – at least Y has M
grandma pulls MS closer and tells her to listen carefully to her words
if you get married – it is not enough that you cook well
you have to have a child
Y: have a kid? who?
neighbor’s wife says the grandma is greedy – she has two so why does she need more
grandma says she didnt tell the woman to have the baby
she turns her attention back to MS
she pats Y’s head
she tells MS to have a kid who looks like Y (but not Y’s mentality)
did she understand that
grandma says she is frustrated and tries another way
she instructs MS to have a kid and makes a birthing motion
B says grandma is funny cuz the motion she  makes to “have a kid” cracks up everyone
the doctor gives T and choi news about D’s condition
the doc points to x-rays of D’s head-where they did the surgery
and says the problem is D’s coma
and all the white parts are (some medical term in korean i dont know)
to know the details they have to take an MRI tm
in this situation – it differs from case to case and they dont know exactly when the patient will come out of the coma
and even after he wakes up, they wont know the full damage
D might lose his hearing or be paralyzed (not be able to move his body)
all T hears is it might not happen (like that)
she gets up saying the doctor cant be exact with anything so why should she listen to all this
T insists on changing hospitals (to a better one)
and walks out
choi says sorry to the doctor and follows her
choi asks what she intends to do changing hospitals now
and tries to get her to go back in
but she pulls away and says she is going to take D to a place where they can make him the way he used to be
choi asks where that is
she says they need to find a place like that -where ever it is
if D was his son- wouldnt he do that?
choi says he knows she is going thru a hard time but dont talk to him like that again
he says he is going to finish his conversation with the doc and for her to go be with D
S is wiping D’s feet but T walks over and grabs the towel away from S
T says she will do it
S says she knows T is mad at her
but she really thought D was practicing piano
she says D will wake up quickly cuz he was healthy before and acts penitent
choi walks in and stands by the doorway – S noticed he came in
S says she will leave now but
T says to S that T is sensitive these days so S needs to be patient
S says T has every right to behave that way
T brings up S’s previous comment from their conversation in the past
T: you have a kid too so you know how i feel right?
choi looks at S and S shakes her head at him silently
T: didnt you say that you left your son in your older brother’s care?
S says yes
T: i didnt even know you had an older brother
(I think T wanted choi to hear that- choi goes out quickly)
T continues : i knew you for so long
but there is not much i know about you
S says that is all (the info about her life) and there is nothing more to know
T tells S to go visit her son after the funeral is over cuz the child will be waiting
choi walks the halls
he remembers
Y saying he deliverd kimchi to S’s house
and M asking S if she knows him at the party
S asking choi why she acted like she didnt know M and for choi to use his brains and think about it
choi yelling at M to take his sister and leave
and M saying how he didnt come to stick to T
and choi puts two and two together that M is his son
choi calls someone to find out info about M
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they have the funeral for the grandpa
choi carries his photo
T is crying
they place the grandpa at the burial site
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T wont leave the gravesite so choi tries to get her to go
she says:
should i send D to my dad (meaning let D die)
even if D wakes up he wont be normal so it will be too hard on our dong joo
choi asks if she can live after doing that – can she live without D?
she looks at him
can you? should we die togther?
choi:what?
T: if D doesnt wake up-let’s die with him-all three of us
B is practicing the piano till her cheeks hurt and waiting under the tree
holding some wild flowers
MS comes over and B signs back
he said he would come – he lied – he is a fool
you said a fool is a kind person
that kid is nice
so he is a fool
but why didnt he keep his promise?
ahjussi kept his promise to be my dad
MS gives her daughter a piggyback ride
she tells her mom
I’m going to practice a lot and surprise him
and worries “maybe he lost his way while coming -then what do i do
– not it cant be-mom his name is cha dong joo-it is written on the piano case but he didnt know and told me his name again- he really is a dummy huh? so he will definitely be here next week -right?”
choi drives by so he honks and she tells the mom to move over
he goes to M’s house  and parks outside
and remembers what the secretary said-that M has a complicated family
something about the mom not being in the picture  (didnt get this part-might have been that it is recorded that the mom is deceased or unknown)
has a father who is mentally slow
the grandma he lives with is not his real grandma and that grandma has a daughter named kim shinae
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grandma goes over to M as he washes his face
she sits next to him doing laundry
saying now all is left is for M to do well (get along with everyone)
so that everyone can be happy
now you can entrust your new mom to take care of your dad
grandma can live a little easier
and you will feel better
she says this marriage is good for M
she forgot MS’s last name for a second
B runs over and tells her it is “bong”
(she is holding wild flowers and washing a vase to put them in)
B asks what is going to be her name
cuz she will start school soon
grandma says B still has time till school starts but
B says she wants to hurry and make one
cuz it is hard for the grandma to call her “little MS”
since dad and M have “bong” as last name
her mom said B’s last name was “bong” too
B tries to come up with her first name and thinks up “bong storage room” cuz she grew up there – then she tries “bong kitchen” (it sounds funnier in korean)
so M sort of laughs  – grandma is quick to notice that
grandma says that last one was good and asks for M’s opinion but he walks off
grandma comments his personality is like his mom’s
when he turns to look back at her
the grandma changes what she said to “be good to your new mom”
so M walks off after saying “who says she is my mom” (cuz he doesnt think of MS as his mom)
M puts a watch on that he got as part of that award from T’s family and smiles looking at it
B comes in so he tells her to get out and not come into his room
she said she just wanted to leave those flowers 
saying this flower scent makes you smarter
I memorized all of “ka – na- da” from smelling these flowers
she says it is for real and recites “ka-na-da”
she can also say it backwards then does it
it sounds hilarious and cute so he laughs
she points out he laughed and he denies it and asks why she talks so much
B: because you dont talk – i am talking twice as much
she tells him to smell the flowers
he says it doesnt – it smells like ant poop
she repeats it and laughs and he asks what is so funny about that
she says it is funny-there is cow poop -horse poop- dog poop-chicken poop
she has seen it all but she hasnt seen ant poop
did he ever see it or smell ant poop? what does it smell like?
he says he already told her – it smells just like these flowers
she calls him a liar – how can a flower smell like poop
they push the flowers back and forth arguing that it doesnt/does smell like poop
MS and Y and grandma listen from outside cuz they cant believe M is smiling
Y signs to MS that M is smiling
finally M puts the flowers down on his desk asking if she is happy now
M actually called himself “oppa” saying “now that brother is leaving it here -go out cuz brother needs to study”
so B makes a remark that M told her not to call him that but he is
he denies it and she starts singing “he said brother”
grandma makes a comment that B has skills cuz she got M to laugh
B notices his watch and says it looks cool and wants to look closer but he tries to cover it and keep her from it and while he was pushing her aside -he knocks over the vase
they stare at the broken glass and M pushes her aside saying “move cuz you might get hurt”
he is about to pick up the glass fragments but sees that the glass on his watch was broken so he gets so upset – almost crying
B says “your watch” and he yells that is why he told her not to
adults go into the room
grandma hits B so Y tells the grandma not to hit B and he protects her
B says sorry and tries to pick up the broken glass so Y offers to do it but
MS tries to pick up the broken glass but Y tries to stop her
M tells them all to get out
grandma sticks up for B saying all B was trying to do was be nice to M
so B explains that it is cuz M’s watch got broke
MS tries to see the watch so M knocks her hands away saying dont touch it
so MS’s hand lands on glass and starts to bleed
Y screams that MS is bleeding
grandma asks for the watch saying what is so great about it
and M yells back -have you ever bought me anything like this?
she keeps hitting him so MS tries to stop the grandma
it gets loud so M screams and tells them to stop cuz he is going crazy
M runs out and choi (still in his car) sees that M is upset
Y runs out and hugs M
M yells for him to let go
Y explains to M that MS cant speak well so dont get mad and apologizes saying it is his fault and begs for forgiveness – “dad was wrong”
M cries and says
why are you my father?
why is a woman like that my mom?
why does it have to be me?
why do i have to live like this?
why not others – why does it have to be me?
what did i do so wrong that i have to live like this -in this house?
you cant answer me can you?
you dont even understand what i am saying do you?
Y hits his head in confusion
M runs off
choi sighs deeply in the car
M goes to the river and throws his broken watch in
Y crouches nearby and watches M
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closeup of D’s face
his head bandaged
he is lying on his hospital bed
from the sound of his breathing it seemed like he was going to wake up
end
preview
omg so much drama
everyone is crying in every scene
—-
MS is in a burning room with the window panes breaking from the heat
choi yells at someone to put out the burning fire
B runs and trips and falls to the ground screaming “brother dont leave!”
M runs after T’s car saying he has something to tell her
Y gets hauled away by the police and grandma is upset
S’s voiceover says it is better not to have Y around
just let him go to jail or put away (asylum?)
and for S, her mom, and M to make a clean break and separate from Y
D wakes up in his bed and hugs his mom yelling hysterically “i cant hear”
T tells a crying M – will you be my son
the doors slowly close on MS as she reaches out (she is in a burning room) and someone’s voice is yelling out her name  (think the voice was a hysterical Y)
grandma tries to kick B out saying she doesnt want to see B 
but B cries out and begs – saying “I am sorry” (“I was wrong”)
S tells choi that she is M’s mother and the woman who gave birth to choi’s son
and he yells back at her to bring him his kid first
T drags D saying “it is better to die” and he yells “no mom!”
T says “die – if you dont want to die alone then die with mom together”
she drags D to a cliff and just as she is about to either throw him off or jump with him – M runs over saying “don’t do it mother”
dressed in funeral attire – Y and B sign together holding out their arms- pointing to the heaven – signing that they will stay together -to make sure to stay together
(OMG i cried twice watching and translating this) 
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MS looks at her inured hand
B hugs her waist and says sorry mom and gives her flowers
B assures her mom and signs that M didnt do that cuz M didnt want to hear her mom’s voice
for real – this is a secret but when M puts earphones into his ears – it isnt to listen to music
if he keeps them in ppl wont try to talk to him so he leaves them in
grandma, dad, me -he keeps them in all the time even when he goes to school
so it isnt cuz of you mom
she says it is a secret
the mom says she has a secret too -what is it
grandma interrupts asking if MS isnt going to the factory
MS motions that she is going to prepare and serve food first and then go
MS signs the secret to B – cant understand it at all
B asks when her mom is going to make it
—-
S is sitting by D’s bed dozing off but when she hears the door, she pretends to read to him
T comes in and says she told S to go visit her home so why is S still here
S says that she cant leave cuz D is here like this
S talks to D like he can hear
she asks if D is bored of books
S finds D’s hackysack and asks D why he would have this since girls usually play with it
T asks what S has – a son or daughter
S says a son
T asks how old is he
S says she must have made T care about her silly talk and
tells T not to think about S right now and just focus on D
S leans in and puts the hackysack in D’s hand and tells him to hurry and wake up and not make his mom go thru this hard time
MS walks by a store
MS looks at her wallet to see how much money she has
she wants to buy M a new watch
she puts the watch in her locker at the factory
manager announces workers have to work overtime to finish up the work that is backed up
so everyone should call home and let their families know
ppl complain so manger says ppl who dont want to work go (empty threat again to fire anyone who doesnt do as told)
a man says you know what happens when it overheats and the manager retorts it is better than getting the president angry
MS didnt understand any of that and asks a woman to help her
at the house
B is playing her piano and Y tells his mom that B is playing so well
grandma just says not to play at night cuz M will say it is noisy
B puts it away
there is a phone call
B tries to answer but grandma wont let her (she is afraid it is S again)
the grandma hears that MS has to work overtime – maybe overnight
Y asks to speak to MS
so grandma points out how could she talk on the phone
B mutters that if her mom is calling then it really is an emergency
Y thinks that emergency means MS has to go to the bathroom cuz of a tummy ache
grandma asks into the phone if MS will be home before breakfast
Y and B decide to go see MS and take her food
B tells Y what her mom’s secret if
to grow lots of flowers cuz they always moved around a lot so they never could
now that they arent moving anymore – she wants to grow lots of them in the front yard
Y says it sounds like it will be pretty
B says it is a secret but she is just telling her dad -cuz he is her dad
B suggests if they grow lots of flowers they can sell them at the market
so that if they make a lot of money then mom doesnt have to work at the factory
Y says let’s hurry and make a flower garden
B worries grandma will say something about it
they mimic the stuff the grandma would say and skip together
MS tries to explain she smells something funny to a co worker (gas maybe)
but no one understands her
that machine that someone warned about overheating does and a huge spark
starts a fire
—-
choi is speaking chinese to some guys in his office
S calls him asking where is he- why he doesnt come to hospital and visit D
he tells her he doesnt need to answer to her and tells her to hang up
she says T is giving her suspicious looks
choi warns S to watch what she says – if she doesnt anything stupid- it doesnt matter about the kid- he will never see S again
suddenly fire alarm goes off
everyone runs out except for MS cuz she didnt hear
she sees the alarm red and blinking finally
she runs out last but goes back to her locker for the watch
Y and B get to the factory
B worries about her mom and looks for her among the crowd with Y
manager asks if everyone came out
MS grabs the bag and almost comes out but the fire traps her
Y tells choi that MS is inside and begs choi for help
but choi had ordered the manager to shut the doors to the warehouse so the product doesnt burn and the whole factory doesnt go down in flames
manager hesitates for a second when he hears Y say that MS is still in there
but obeys choi anyway
B tries to go in and men hold Y and B back but B breaks loose and runs free
she heads inside toward the warehouse entrance
MS is trapped inside
B is inside looking for her
Y breaks free and goes in and meets B
B spots MS
there is fire so they cant get to her
B wants to get her mom’s attention and looks for her hackysack in her pocket but realizes she gave it to D and doesnt have it
in D’s room, the hackysack drops from his hand
B throws her shoe to her mom to get her attention
but the doors start to shut
she could have made it maybe but she goes back for the watch again
the doors shut until they cant see her anymore
——
neighbors come to the house asking where MS is
grandma says she is at the factory
they tell grandma about the fire at the factory
M is shocked too and they say they all have to hurry and go
—–
MS is barely alive at the hospital
she is having trouble breathing
Y keeps calling her name
B asks her mom if her mom can see B
she tells her mom to endure what the docs are doing
so that they can fix what is wrong with her mom and they can hurry and go home
B tells her dad to hurry and say something
he apologizes to MS – I was going to go to you …dont cry….dont cry MS
look at me  -he starts to sing
nurse tells him to leave
B: dad -mom is smiling
he keeps singing
MS cant breathe
she pushes the oxygen away
B: mom what did you say? say it again
doc says MS shouldnt talk
he tries to intubate her but she pushes him away
she signs for them to stay together
Y says he knows that sign for “together”
and she holds both B and Y’s hands together
Y holds tight to B’s hand and tells MS that they are together
MS closes her eyes
B: mom dont close your eyes – open them
if you close your eyes you wont be able to hear what i say-mom!
Y: we are together we are together
Y tries to stop the doc from doing CPR saying that it hurts MS
MS’s heart flatlines
grandma asks why MS is like this
grandma, neighbors, and M arrive in time to hear the doctor pronounce MS’s death

neighbor’s wife: how can you go like this-what do we do? MS
B: this isnt happening -mom – open your eyes-mom – mom!
Y:why is she like this?
the grandma takes it pretty hard and holds MS’s legs and cries
Y keeps telling MS to open her eyes cuz he is here
even M is crying
everyone is crying
i cant see the keys to type this
—-
manager reports to choi that MS died cuz she inhaled too much gas
choi says he asked if everyone had come out
so he impies that it is the manager’s fault
choi tells him that since a person died – someone has to be held responsible
manager asks if that person is him
choi asks do you want to?
manager groans and begs for choi to save him
the manager doesnt want to take the blame
choi changes the story of how it happened
if they say that MS went back in alone after coming out
and then the fire got bigger – ppl will talk differently
(about who is to blame – meaning the ppl who might blame the company)
manager has no choice but to go along cuz it is either him or MS
as  MS’s body is taken to the morgue
everyone walks with her gurney
B is walking along without a shoe
she says they cant – where are they taking her mom
Y keeps saying MS let’s go home
neighbor holds him back
grandma cries out how can someone who was healthy and normal end up dead and demands for someone to bring the ppl in charge of the factory
M has to go and pull B away from the gurney cuz B wont let go
the manager takes the police to hospital
the police want to question Y cuz he was there at the accident site and is related to MS
grandma asks why they are taking her son the ppl they should be taking are the ones at the factory
policeman explains that the fire got out of control cuz of MS (they are blaming MS saying she caused the accident) and the company is suing her ( accusing her of arson)  for the damage to the factory
M: a person died so who is suing who? (meaning they should be the ones to sue)
manager tells M to stay quiet since he doesnt know anything cuz his stepmom left but went back in and messed with something and the fire broke out
grandma asks what is he talking about – does he means that their MS set the place on fire
Y says that isnt it
the fire was already going strong
MS was about to come out
i was going to go to her
but the wall came down
he suddenly grabs the manager
Y: i told you not to…i told you she was inside…shinae and that guy..you didnt listen to me.
manager says let go cuz Y has lost his mind
T tells the manager to bring back MS
manager: your wife died
Y: she didnt
and he butts his head against the manager’s face and makes it bleed
manager claims this is battery/assault
police take Y away for assault
and the hospital
T hears that there was a fire at the factory
she wonders how big it was for choi not to answer his phone all night
she is told one person died and the guardian for that person is mentally slow so there is a problem
S hears that description and asks for the name of the guardian and runs out to get a cab to the police station
T follows  her in her car
at the police station
M tries to defend his dad and MS
he asks how the manager can ask for money (damages) when a person died- why should they?
Y is handcuffed to his chair and begs to be uncuffed cuz he needs to go to MS
manager says Y cant go cuz he has to answer for his actions in hurting the guy
policeman explains what happened to M ( manager’s claims)
M asks the police if they have evidence that his stepmom set the place on fire
manager says all the workers are witnesses-they saw MS run out but go back in and the fire started
since the manager yelled all that at M -Y goes over and protects M saying to the manager not to yell at M
Y asks M to hurry and get out of here so he can go see MS
but  M asks Y to focus and tell him what happened -stepmom didnt start the fire right?
Y is confused and says he doesnt know
all he remembers he went to MS and the wall came down (door shutting)
I saw that man (the manager) and the man i delivered kimchi to …that person didnt listen to what i said so ….
manager says Y is crazy for bringing up kimchi
M grabs Y and tells him to say it again coherently
Y is confused
police say the fire marshall finished the inspection and found mineral oil spilled near where M’s mom was
manager says he knew something like that happened and how easily that oil catches on fire
M says someone else could have done that
manager says it happened right in front of the ( room where fire started)
the manager has proof M’s mom went back to that area to start the fire
he hands M the watch MS went back to get
M cries holding it
Y keeps hitting his head
—–
neighbors and grandma look thru the bars and grandma wants to go in cuz she sees that it looks bad for Y
they pull her out to the hallway where B is crouched crying for her mom
grandma tells the neighbors to take B away – she tells B to be quiet and go to her mom
and that she cant stand the sight of B
neighbors ask the grandma what she is doing to the kid
grandma says that even in death – B’s mom is causing this trouble for her child (Y)
you think i wanted to see this happen and let them get married? this is all canceled
I dont know your mom and i dont know you- so go away
grandma is worried Y wont be able to anything to defend himself if he sees B
so B begs and says she is sorry for what she did wrong
S shows up at the station and grandma asks how she knew to come
S gives a dirty look to B then walks over to look at M who is sitting there quietly
grandma asks what should they do -what is going to become of poor Y 
S and her  mom go out to talk
* the grandma is irrationally blaming B
she thinks if she can pretend not to know B then Y wont be in trouble anymore cuz then there would be any connection to MS (who is being blamed for the fire)
even tho Y still has to face charges for hitting that manager
outside
S asks why M is in there
grandma says M is there to save his dad-pleading for Y’s behalf
grandma tells S that those ppl are claiming that MS set the fire
and the grandma is indignant
S blames her mom for getting Y married off
grandma admits she was wrong to do that
grandma asks S to help Y get released
S pushes her away saying are you crazy
she thinks this turned out well
if she is going to take M away – it is better not to have Y around
S wants to use this incident to wash her hands of Y
she suggest that S, her mom and M separate from Y and go to seoul
grandma:what?
S said her mom did the best she could
cuz she raised a man for 40 yrs like he was her own son
when he had been abandoned by his own parents 
and looked after him and cleaned up his mess whenever he got into trouble
she did more than enough
grandma hits S saying how could she tell her to throw Y away after she threw her own son away and calls her a bad woman
S says – do you know who M’s dad is? (meaning he is an imp person)
choi calls the manager
at the station
M is so quiet staring at that watch
so the manager asks why cuz a min ago M was arguing so well
Y keeps hitting his head on the table
send me to MS – MS i am sorry
manager asks what M is going to do – does he have any money
to compensate i think
manager gets a call from choi
manager asks to speak to M alone
he tells M that the manager is starting to feel sorry for Y
but the president wants to put Y away for beating the manager
since Y cant pay for the damages and cause trouble for the factory by talking nonsense
so the president is saying to put Y away so he wont go around telling lies
he tells M to go beg the president for mercy
he reminds M that M already met choi before at the award day
and to go get on his knees and beg the president for mercy
M remembers how choi mistreated him-making him feel like he isnt worthy of attention
M gets angry and says to the manager
M: what did I do so wrong that i need to beg for mercy?
manager asks if M can take care of his family and pay for the damages too
M: why should i? when i didnt even start the fire
manager says if his dad goes to jail then who else is left to be held responsible
he insists it is better for M to go and beg cuz he is a child
and if he does it well -they might make it so nothing happened
and they can leave Y in jail till the president stops being angry
or send him to an asylum for now
M gets up: do whatever you want
whether you put him in jail or an asylum
Y cries out for M but M storms out
manager yells at M not to be this way and go beg cuz the president is still at the factory
on his way out M grabs B’s hand and tells her to come out
M drags B outside
she asks if they are going to her mom
what about dad? dad has to go with us
dad has to go with us – what about dad?
she tries to pull away
M: stop it
what did he do for you that he is your dad?
all the way till now and even in the future
he cant do anything for you
so dont call for him or look for him
he pulls her but she resists
M: listen to me
if you act stubborn
I’m going to abandon you here and go
B: even tho you do I cant
i have to be with dad
she says she promised her mom and Y to stay together and wont go
so oppa – dont go either
with dad and you – all of us – let’s go to see my mom huh?
M backs away from her
M: i dont want to
I dont care about the promise you made with a dead person
he turns to run and sees T in her car
T remembers how at the party M had told S that he is her son
B grabs his hand and begs him not to go
T drives away
he gives B the watch and tells her to wait here and he will be right back
she cries and tries to run after him but trips and keeps calling out and begging him not to go
M runs after T’s car
he asks her to stop for a minute cuz he has something to say
but T drives on
—–
D wakes up
he sees the nurse coming in
D tries to take the mask away and does
she is speaking but he cant hear
so he yells and holds his ears
T goes back to the hospital
M arrives in a cab and doesnt pay and goes in
T comes in and D sees her but he cant hear
he hugs her and says mom
she asks the nurse and doctors why D is like this
she is happy he woke up
she says D is okay now and tells everyone to leave
she keeps holding D as he says mom over and over
M comes in and sees them together – he stands by the doorway
D wont let go of her
she tells him that it is ok now cuz he woke up
(but he cant hear)
and finally D tells her the truth
that he cant hear
she explains it is cuz he is just shocked right now so it is temporary
D says he cant hear anything at all
W: why are you doing this?
D shakes her: mom dont joke around and speak cuz i cant hear
mom say something cuz i cant hear
mom say something
i cant hear
i cant hear
she says this cant happpen
she is in shock
M just stands there at the door watching
——-
S goes to see choi
he asks why she came (cuz he was waiting for M)
S;who were you waiting for?
choi- you are something else
you were going to put Y in jail
and take M away
who said you could?
choi: just bring M here
I have to do a blood test and make sure he is my son or not
S says she isnt T and wont do as he orders
S: if you wanted to find the kid
you should have told me first
you were going to keep me in the dark
go behind my back, investigate, and bring the kid over
if you did that
you thought i would just stand by and let that happen
choi asks what she would have done
S; i am M’s mom – i am the woman who had your son
he wants to make sure what she says is true and yells at her to bring the kid first
—–
T is lying in bed and stroking D’s head as D sleeps
M gets on his knees by the door
M asks T to help him just once
you said i should come find you when i am in trouble
this is the first time and last 
i know it’s not an easy situation
but i have no one else to turn to
please help my father
im sorry please help me
T keeps stroking D’s hair as he sleeps
she calls M over to her
she tells M that D is hurt a lot
she takes M’s hands and holds it
saying- will you be my son?
Y is behind bars crying for MS
B is sitting on the steps crying holding the watch
crying for her mom, dad, and brother
————
T is still holding M’s hand
she says to herself – choi you made my son into this so just wait and see what i do to your son
Y -B and the neighbors are at the river
the lady says hurry and send MS off
cuz Y keeps holding MS’s ash and crying
he tells the neighbor to wait a little
Y cries and says to MS
i dont know much about what you are doing
but since you might feel suffocated I will send you away
he unties the white sheet her box  is wrapped in (inside is her ash)
Y asks B to show her mom that thing
B holds up her document up to the box
mom do you see this? it means i can go to school now
i’m going to live with dad
and not move away too
mom – i miss you-mom – mom
Y starts to scatter her ash into the river saying – MS- I miss you
neighbor’s husband cries loudly
his wife says to B
you will see your mom – your mom moved far away first
later you will see her
B says to her mom
mom – wait for me- let’s meet later-let’s make sure to meet
Y pours her ash and tells her
MS- dont lose your way and go
I will make sure to find you and go
dont lose your way and have a safe trip
B throws flowers onto the river
B stands and looks up at heaven
she signs mom i love you
you cant forget me ok?
Y gets up and stands next to her
he says – MS – look at us
Y and B sign together that they will stay together
crap i cant see the keys again cuz I am crying so hard
he promises over and over to stay together
after school
B is running to the police station
she is wearing the watch
she went to see if the police heard any news about M yet
when she shows up
one says there is no news today
another says that the kid they heard about in the accident yesterday couldnt have been M cuz the other kid was 12 yrs old
another complains that they keep getting pranks calls cuz of the fliers she keeps passing out with the pic of M on it
she says she put the stations number cuz she was afraid her family would miss any calls when they are out 
she promises to come back tm again for any news and runs off
she goes home after school and makes food for grandma
grandma is staring at pic of M and crying-she has been drinking soju
where did you go my baby and why arent you coming back
she keeps calling out his name when B brings in the food
B tries to take the soju bottle away from her saying
the grandma shouldnt drink and needs to eat
grandma hits B saying what business is it of yours
give it back
B says she cant drink alcohol and she needs to hurry and eat so B can go to the market
cuz her dad is hungry
grandma says how am i your grandma?
go find M – my baby left home cuz of you- go find M
B says M will be back cuz he promised her he would
and I am your granddaughter and my dad’s daughter
she holds up a piece of paper as proof -it says that B is Y’s daughter
grandma has no balance and falls as she tries to hit B again
B says she doesnt have energy cuz she drank
B says: you dont want to see me huh?
if you eat all this food then I will disappear for you in a jiffy
grandma takes the spoonful of rice from B and says she is going
to eat all this food so B should go out cuz she doesnt want to see B
S shows up
she cant believe her mom – S asks how her mom can eat
B pops up and asks aunt should i prepare food for you too?
S hits B on the forehead-saying go away and makes B fall down
grandma yells at S that B’s tailbone might break
S tells her mom that she told her mom to get rid of B
when she sees B her blood pressure goes up
S orders B to get out
B says she needs to watch grandma finish all her food and leave
S says that B isnt even feeding the grandma well cuz there isnt much to eat
grandma tells S to take care of herself
grandma accuses S of not looking like she cares that M is missing
cuz of the way she is dressed and doesnt look upset
S says will someone find her son for her if she goes around looking pititful and unkempt
S says that she needs to look clean and rich so that someone will want to find M
(if she looks like money ppl might think they will get a reward)
B looks at her clothes and says then B needs to go around looking cleaner
then S says to her mom that someone saw a kid who looks like M in jejudo
and wants money for ticket
grandma tosses S a bowl of rice on her lap saying this is money
grandma says that she doesnt want to see M again cuz he ran off and makes it sound like M doesnt matter to her anymore- if S wants to find her son or not – S should do it on her own
S asks if she feels that way why was the grandma holding onto M’s pic
S says as soon as they find M all of the grandma’s suffering is over (pay off from choi i guess)
so S tries to check her pockets to get money
Y is passing out pics of M at the market
hello – this is my son – if you see him tell him to come home 
when someone asks how much the bean sprouts are he hands her a flier and asks if she saw his son his name is bong ma ru and chases after her to take the flier with her as she leaves
neighbor stops him saying that even if Y passed out hundreds of those it wont make a difference cuz these days there are investigators -if you pay them money they find him for you
Y pulls out the change in his pockets saying he has lots of money
where is that person who can find his son
Y offers to give all of it and if he works he can earn more
there is more at home – 50 cents
neighbors says Y will need lots more than this
wife yells at her husband to just fry the chicken and not get Y’s hopes up
Y worries cuz he doesnt have that much money
B comes and asks why her dad is like that
she looks over at the neighbor to blame him
and the guy acts innocent saying he doesnt know anything
why did the bad guys make a kid worry so much that he would run off
and make his family suffer so much
the ppl at WK (grandpa’s cosmetic company) are the bad ppl
Y, B, and the guy’s wife all yell at him for bringing up that name
B says to Y -after he eats let’s go look for M
Y says let’s not go anywhere near WK
B runs over and tells ppl to buy the vegetables-even if you go elsewhere -there arent any vegetables like this
she passes out fliers to each customer or anyone passing by saying this is my brother
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T is overseas I guess-somewhere hilly and lush with an ocean nearby-guam maybe?
she goes to a store and asks for choco cereal saying her son will love it in eng
wow nice house on a hill
she drives up and a guy comes out and asks if she enjoyed her shopping
she asks if her son is ok
he goes in and says delivery came
M is shirtless and playing with a baseball
he calls her mom
she throws him some water and shows him the cereal she got for him
she calls him junha and says this is the one you like right?
he says yes and she asks about D
he says D was here just a few mins ago
she tells M that he should have put on sunscreen
cuz if he doesnt he wont tan evenly
he grabs the groceries from her and goes saying the ice cream might melt
* at the store she said “my son” as she asked for the cereal
that means she left out mentioning D – she never said “sons”
D is frustrated cuz he cant hear
he raises the volume level as high as it will go
he holds his head/ears
when T sits next to him, he tries to hide behind a cushion
she tells him not to and offers to watch tv with him cuz it is his fav movie
but he shakes his head
she tells D that D saw this a hundreds -thousands of time before so even if he cant hear he knows it all
D keeps holding his ears and making sounds
M tells her he will try it and tries to get D to watch it with him
but D pushes him away
M: then let’s do something else
and suggests a game
but D throws it at him
T gets mad at D for that and grabs him
M tries to stop her saying he will try to slowly make D do it
 if you try to force him then he wont even more
but D makes more sounds and T grabs him and tells D not to make sounds and talk
to talk normal and not make those sounds
D keeps doing it so she slaps D
M looks at her shocked
D looks at her like he is hurt (by the fact that his mom  just struck him)
and T seems surprised but keeps at it
telling him that he can talk
M had hugged D saying it is ok
she yells asking why D is doing this
not talking for a year
not saying a word
how long are you going to do this
do you want to see your mom go crazy?
please talk
D cowers behind M
M tries to block D so T cant hurt D
T tries to reach for D telling him not to hide
M tells her to please stop
T just yells in frustration
at night M and D are sleeping sharing a bed
M realizes the lights have been left on
M gets up and D wakes too and holds onto his arm
M speaks slowly so D can read his lips that he wont go anywhere -he is just up to turn the lights off
D shakes his head no and points to the window
M explains the wind is blowing so there is no need to be scared and to sleep
D shakes his head
M says ok and they both lean back on the headboard
and D links arms with M and D is holding the hackysack
M promises not to go and stay next to D
M looks at the hackysack and asks why D holds that
but D isnt looking at him
D has a lost look on his face
M makes him look at him and M tells him to close his eyes and sleep
he tells him to listen to his older brother and shuts D’s eyes and lets D lean on his shoulder
M tells him to sleep and not worry about anything
your older brother will protect you
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when they are sleeping
T comes in
she touches D’s cheeks
she says : D – mom was wrong baby – mom is sorry-i’m sorry – forgive me
i was wrong
I was wrong about everything
she cries
M is not sleeping and hears it
he remembers how Y said the same thing to him
when Y said it was Y’s fault
and how many times M told Y that he was embarrassed of him
how Y protected M from the grandma
he cries silently
—–
Y shows B that to make rice you have to have the water level up to middle of your hand
he scoops out a serving of rice for all of them- even for M-wondering if M will come back today
B wraps M’s bowl of rice separately
B says her dad is the best
—-
D is sitting outside
M gets his attention by spraying D with water
M asks him to play catch and throws a glove and baseball at his feet
he speaks slowly so D can read his lips
why? are you afraid? that you might lose?
dummy – worry wart- ant poop
D picks up the ball and throws it at M
since D took the challenge at the sound of “poop” M says he is going to call D “ant poop” from here on
M picks up the hose and sprays D and D gets the hose and sprays M back
T is meeting with some doctor/specialist for D
the doc looks outside at D and asks if D is getting adjusted
she says even ppl who are born deaf can get surgery to fix it
so why cant D?
he says something medical about how D’s condition affected both sides of something
T says she will look into other places
did the doc check all over japan or europe too?
he says he sent all of D’s x-rays but they all reached the same conclusion
so it is time for T to accept it now cuz if she doesnt it will make it harder for D
he wants D to start learning sign language and stuff
but T is resistant insisting that is for ppl who cant talk
she tells him that D knows how to talk  – he just wont
doc says cuz of parent’s greed-there are kids who get so much stress that they end up closing off their hearts too and not just their hearing- does T want that to happen?
T says D isnt that weak -just look at him-look how well he is functioning
she points outside where D is playing with the hose with M
T:what is so different about D than junha?
she says it is ok if D cant have surgery but
she wants to make D just like any other kid
so the doc only needs to keep his promise with her
D is all better
the doc treated him well – completely
she makes the doc promise
he says he gets it but she has to remember one thing
even if D fools everyone in the world
he cant fool himself
the fact that he cant hear
M knocks on the window pane for the mom cuz D is in pain
—-
T and the doc runs outside
D is having pains in his ears suddenly
T asks M why D is like this
M says he doesnt know – D just started doing that suddenly
the doc lays D down on the picnic table
doc explains that when D suddenly shakes his head he will suddenly feel dizzy and stuff
he rotates D’s head back and forth and says it doesnt seem like D is in any immediate danger
so the guy turns D’s head and tells M that D cant play any games that are too strenuous for now
she complains why are there so many things D isnt allowed to do?
he cant he cant -instead of words like that – what is there that D can do?
doc carries D in to have a light check up
M apologizes to T -he was just trying to bring D outside
she calls herself mom to him and says that he must have been startled by what happened and apologizes to him
she takes his hand and says cuz the doctor came she forgot to tell M
she found a school for him to go to
just cuz D is like that – M doesnt have to suffer like this too
you wont disappoint me right?
he promises not to and calls her mom
end
preview
T yells at D to talk – if he doesnt he will forget how
she tries to get him to say “give me ice cream”
S backhugs choi and asks maybe she is being punished cuz she stood by while the grandpa was dying and pretended not to know
B signs to Y that she is his daughter so she is going with him
(why are they still signing?)
T says a prayer to her dad: father -watch over (protect) D-the person you loved the most
T drags D to the edge of the cliff
D finally talks and says “save me” when his mom tried to throw him off the cliff
she hugs him in relief when he calls her “mom”
grownup B looks into the camera and says
dad and grandma have been waiting a long time for you oppa
Maru oppa – dad is ….
end
guess next week is the last time the kids come out
 
 
 
 
seriously guestioning T’s parenting skills – threatening to kill your son just seems so wrong – this scene is going to anger me again next week i just know it
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19 comments on “CYHMH E3 & E4

  1. kcomments says:

    I knew it! Softy would be crying^^DJ in coma was really sad for me.
    Man, when DJ fell off after he saw everything, I didn’t expect that..so sad, how the boy would feel when he wakes up?
    Did Choi literally kill grandpa? But Choi tried to take DJ’s hand when he fell off, he must have loved DJ sincerly? This scene was so sad.
    Lots of things happened tonight, I’d say quite a fast pace.
    Tomorrow hell will break lose for grandma fam too, just by the preview, the little MS was crying so hard, made me feel sad already.
    Thanks softy, really enjoying your recap, my live streaming didn’t work well tonight.

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    • kcomments says:

      Sorry, but shouldn’t your heading be ‘DYHMH E3’ instead of E2?

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    • kcomments says:

      Oh so sorry, yep I realized too when I checked the vid of this ep, little Mi Suk signed from last ep to Dong Joo been answered it’s ‘a fool’, couldn’t help smiling when he grows up and learns the meaning later. ^^

      It’s interesting though, how they will find each other after years later, Dong Joo doesn’t know her name, how will he know that Woo Ri is her? and Ma Ru will change his name later too, how will she know that Jun Ha is Ma Ru? Hmm….

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  2. Taber says:

    Nice, enjoyed it thank you. I’m so mad this drama on the weekend, I be rushing for Sunday and then have to start another stressful work week!

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  3. lei2010 says:

    omg this is so sad… i can’t wait for the next ep… what a tragedy it will be…

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  4. floralnori says:

    I cried and smiled my way through your recap! Now I’m looking forward to tomorrow’s episode.

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  5. Kfan says:

    Thank you for your effort! Just a question but Dong Joo still remembers everything right? Choi still lives with them and does Ma roo know that Choic is his father? -.-

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    • REBEL SOULS says:

      there was no mention of what D remembers cuz part of his inability to speak has to do with the accident – since he isnt talking – if he remembered anything about what choi did to his grandfather D would have written it down at least. at this point, it is safe to assume that D does not remember the accident.
      as for M – he has no clue that choi is his dad. at the police station he refused to beg for mercy for Y’s sake cuz M knows that choi is the president who looked down at him on awards day and was so rude to him so M hates choi. That is why M decided to go chase T down cuz he likes her and asks her to help him get Y out of trouble.
      also choi doesnt live with them – he is still in korea. T took both boys and went overseas to get special help for D to recover his speech and hearing. probably next week we will know how choi dealt with the fact that his wife took his son away.that is why T changed M’s name to junha

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  6. kcomments says:

    Thanks so much softy for doing this on weekend.
    From your recap, it seemed Ma Ru was turning around to show his love for his dad, Mi Suk, Woo Ri and even Dong Joo. Aww…I didn’t expect the writer to change him this episode, but DJ’s mom took him in cuz she knew he is Choi’s son and wanted revenge, now I feel my heart will reach out for Ma Ru, couldn’t see how this character will play the part in the future to DJ, good or bad. And I really have to say I didn’t like DJ’s mom character at all, she was too hard on her own son, unreasonable character.

    I didn’t see the vid yet(couldn’t rush back in time), so not sure why grandma would hate little Mi Suk, and it’s sad that they were looking for Ma Ru till now. I loved that DJ couldn’t speak at first, it’s realistic cuz he’s so young, he couldn’t hear so it must be hard to speak. I wish the writer won’t make DJ’s mom became really bad in the future but it’s looking that way *sigh*

    I didn’t expect this drama to be this sad, but somehow the angst and the sadness were done right and in tone with the storyline, also acted out really well. I will wait and see the adult casts, if the story gets really heavy i.e tearjerker/angsty/melo without practical reason, may be I’m out. Let’s see what will unfold to us next week^^
    Thanks again.

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    • kcomments says:

      Ok, I saw the episode raw, have to say all the sad scenes were done very nicely, little Mi Suk was outstanding portraying losing her mom the only one person in this world she ever had. I also officially hate DJ’s mom, she made the situation worst for her son and her revenge on Jun Ha/Ma Ru looked pretty scary.
      From the preview, I think I saw DJ (as adult) standing on the cliff covered his ears with his hands recalling moments with little Mi Suk (she told him under the tree that if he closes his eyes he can see, covers his ears he can hear). Aww…if it’s what I think it would be, the transition would be quite awesome and so romantic on the romance part, I do worry about the female lead tho *cross fingers*

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  7. Anon says:

    I am enjoying this so much, the kids really are awesome, loved the girl in the movie with Won Bin and here too and the boy playing DJ is just adorable.

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  8. Jewels says:

    Softly, thanks so much for the recap. If it was not for you recapping Ep 1/2 I would have missed a wonderful drama. The kids are awesome, especially the little girl. The last I was moved in a drama by a little girl is when I watch Moon in Autumn’s Tale.

    Thanks for recapping!

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  9. Jomo says:

    We should have known with the actress – Junpyo’s mom — once you play an evil mom, always play an evil mom.
    This made my skin crawl and all I did was read the words: “You made my son into this so just wait and see what i do to your son…”
    She is really really good at evil.

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    • Softy says:

      Wait – she said that but the difference is her intent. I don’t think she is setting out to hurt M- she is just using him to hurt choi. If M ends up loving her as a mom ( which he did from the minute he met her)- M probably will not easily accept S as his mom cuz she already point blank humiliated him in public by denying he is her son. Plus we all know he already hates choi. So since T blames choi for D ending up like that, she wants to take M away from choi- and she literally did – she took him out of the country and changed his name even.Now she is treating M like he is her son – kinda makes me wonder if she really does like having him as her son cuz he is smart and has a bright future- maybe she stopped thinking of using him as a pawn in her revenge against choi and S. In that way she is diabolical and clever- she never lashed out or confronted choi or S- T just took away what was important to both of them.

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  10. Moe says:

    I cry a lot too! this is a real drama … but I can´t wait next week to see “… years after” 🙂

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  11. nikesma says:

    softy, seriously. how can you do this to me? I started watching CYHMH. You know what you did to me? I cried all night long with 4 episodes worth of crying. In one night. There are too many elements, and while bawling like crazy, my mind has to processed those too. Even watching the next episode preview, makes me cry. Oh, god. Everytime the dad comes on, I just cry. What I like most about it, is how the relationship can really bond. Of what certain others can you fill your emptiness and longings. It doesn’t have to be family member. And it was shown enough, that blood bonds can’t fulfill that, they just don’t appreciate of what they have. *continues bawling
    I can’t comment much cuz I’m too behind. T_T

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  12. alyahanisahomar says:

    can i know what is the song that bong wo ri and her father like to sing? what is the tittle.. i desperately want to know. thank you!

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    • Softy says:

      The good news is someone said the title and name of the song and i think they even posted YouTube video of it on a recap, but the bad news is it’s somewhere in all these comments. It was def posted on earlier recap I think. You would have to go through each recap to find it. It might be faster to try the CYHMH soompi thread on the first page to see if someone listed all the songs under the ost. Good luck.

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